Just to clarify, the friend/family option is just like it states...An option. I am stating that IF THE BIDDER DOES NOT PAY THE WHOLE SHIPPING FEES, I will not ship the item. I do not understand how this is hard to understand, but somehow somebody has to make this site hard for others. I never once did say that you must use this option or else I will not ship. Wow, some people are ruthless, I swear. Please understand that if you pay your shipping fees, you will receive your item. May God bless everyone and heal all the people that only want to cause trouble for others. AMEN!