Thanks I also realized that I need to put shipping on my stuff bc I 15 items about to end today and I dont have all the money I need to send them all out at the same time... Thanks for the good luck
most people are understanding if you are honest and communicate well. it is free for them so if they have to wait a week or so they are usually ok with it. Just communicate and yes you are right I also learned the hard way that you have to stagger listings or charge shipping. even $2 saves you a bunch with multiple listings.
PayPal is the easiest. simple to set up account if you don't have one. Just send winner your email address and they can send by PayPal. it protects both of you.