You technically have to send them if someone wins the lot. You can't just decide to not send them...If you don't want to let them go for less than 20,000, then you should have set the starting bid at 20,000
Most people do that. I do that all the time to guarantee to win it. But you have to be fast!! I'm going to bid pretty high in a couple of days. We will see if anyone wants to outbid me.