FREE: Three strand necklace

Hi! I'd love to bid on this. I love abalone. One thing bothers me, in your "conditions" - you say 'at this point the winner gets an opportunity to leave positive feedback...I, IN TURN, will leave..." When I win an auction with shipping charges, I pay immediately. I believe in leaving positive feedback immediately for winners who promptly pay any fees & don't think it's right for a seller to withhold positive feedback when promptly paid until the winner leaves you positive feedback. Feedback is earned when the winner meets the conditions of the auction, prompt payment. Feedback is earned for the seller when the winner RECEIVES the item in a timely fashion, & it's exactly what the seller advertised, pictures & description. If as described, why would a winner NOT leave positive feedback? I've had to ASK for feedback twice, (always been given immediately) & it's a case of a seller falling behind, understandable, esp. if the seller has multiple auctions up, & never (for me, yet) been withheld because of the seller fearing negative/ neutral feedback. The only reason a seller would have that concern would be if their item wasn't as described.This necklace, I'm sure, will be exactly as pictured AND described. Why would you withhold feedback for me, should I choose to bid & probably win this, if I paid you promptly. As much as I'd love to win this item, I most likely won't bid, knowing that my positive feedback for prompt payment is going to be withheld until I leave positive for you. That's a shame as you have 2 others I'd like to win - the Faux Ruby & the Vintage 3 strand with mauve beads & clip earrings (that set is particularly appealing to me). I guess these 3 will be my loss AND your loss. If I want something, I bid a high proxy & keep a notepad with ending days & times of auctions I've bid on, & am always here at the end to make sure I win. Thank you for making your terms crystal clear, I appreciate your candor. God bless & good luck with your auctions. ~Poppy~