I'm sorry to hear your son is in hospital. We can relate,MY hubby's son is a CHF patient in end stage. I will keep your son, you and your family in our thoughts! What kind of GIN would you like for this wedding kazashi AND the yellow kanzahi?I'm bidding on the headband.hopefully I'll win. Lmk about the GIN when you've got a moment. No rush! Family comes first! Tyvm yvette