Wow. sorry if i offended you you miss understood me. I wouldn't invite any one to my home either. I'm 4'11 small frame woman safety is highly important I had an auction with a lady in the same town a few days ago she won a pin holder we met at walmart be cause it was safe for both of us. we both brought some one with us.. that's what i ment by local pick up.. going to a strangers house is something they teach you in school you just don't do it....once again sorry if i offended you.