ok....scroll to the very bottom of your screen, on the right hand side click 'member support'. Under 'account help' on the left side, 4th entry down is 'how do I delete/cancel my bid'. chose it, follow the simple directions and you should get your bid back. In future please refrain from bidding all willy-nilly. Make sure you really want the item before you make that click to submit your bid. Posting.."someone pls outbid me" on someone elses auction just seems/looks negative and to me it's downright rude. Good luck, I hope you win whatever it is you wanted. Have a great life.............................lorri