I don't think this one came with one. I bought it about 16 months ago and used it a handful of times before going with a back pack. Things for 2 kids in it was impossible lol.
shipping is based on the seller. this auction is listed as free shipping meaning the seller pays for shipping .... you decide how it is shipped. this will be a parcel a it may fit in a usps priority flat rate medium (the long thin one) which I don't know the current rate of off hand. let me get you a link
This bag is brown,maybe it was the lighting of the room. Are you sure you still want it. On my end it shows that it's brown,maybe not for everyone else ?
Okay the flat rate box I am thinking it will fit in is the Medium Flat Rate Box – 2 (side-loading) unless it is the large side loading. the link is : https://www.usps.com/ship/priority-mail.htm or you can do it by first class parcel which is by weight and can often cost more. Also flat rate always includes tracking which helps you and the winner out
and fyi this bag did include a changing pad (not a bid deal for me just asking) as it is this bag http://www.walmart.com/ip/Baby-Boom-Fashion-Tall-Tote-Diaper-Bag-Brown/23597265 if you didn't get one it had been detached before purchase. They don't even offer it in black anymore which is why I want yours ;-)