I'm sorry your in pain. My mother is also very ill and so I understand the waves of emotion that come with caring for someone who is dying. I collect bumper stickers and bid what available points I had. I was not bidding against anyone in my head or my heart. You need to realize you are attacking the wrong thing. Perhaps you can make your mom the same saying on a piece of paper and in the end that may even mean more. Perhaps you can go to a library and type it up and print it out if you hand writing isn't neat. good luck