My fiance told me to forget goals because people rush for goal sizes cx. He didint have a goal size and took his time and hes at 2 inchs. Meanwhile i had a goal size and rushed now im stuck at 5/8 sadly. Rushing really affects your ears :(
I have to agree on that too, but also just depends on the person. I had my goal set for 20mm - it took a long ass time, but my ears are healthy as can be ^.^ I'll possibly aim for 1 inch during the next few years. That's no good! I'm sorry :c never rush, you will certainly get to the size you wish to in no time. That's the one thing people do is rush through sizes and it puts a lot of damage on your ears.