Well, you can't believe everything you read...LOL! Could be an interesting read. I have never personally read it.The reviews on Amazon are mixed (as I said), but provocative and do not discourge, but rather, intrigue. At the time I got the book, it was reccommended by a male friend who was busypracticing the "secrets" of the book. I had no significant other to practice with and thought I should save it for futurerefeence. I find that now...I do not require it. Though, after reading the reviews, I might get a paperback copy for someone I know. This one is a hardback.