I checked on it a while ago and was so surprised! That's one thing about the auctions that is so intriguing, some things you think would go for a high bid don't, and then the items you never expect out of the blue surprise you. (?)
Awe : / I understand, I've felt like that bidding on certain items . I wish Listia had a withdraw from auction key before the auction was done because sometimes you accidentally bid on something and THEN you see something you didn't notice before and suddenly your locked in cause your the highest bidder. Here's a couple of suggestions. If the auction ends and you win, I have basically arranged to send both items to you for the cost of the purse. You could get the shirt try it on see if you like it, if you decide you don't want to keep it for yourself choose to use it for a gift item or RE-List it. That's what I did. I bought it thinking it would work nice for my daughter, turned out she advertised it at a completely different size range so I tried it and decided it wouldn't work with my wardrobe so I RELISTED it. Or you can always apply for a refund within 3 days following the end of the auction. Good luck! ; )
Oh heck! Don't be sorry! ; ) we're all here to help each other win and the more people that realize that the better it is for everyone! We all been there! Good you talked with me and we can find a win/ win solution and pay it forward! ; )