"Auction closed when I was out of state due to a ... " (more) death in the family. I was gone for two weeks and completely forgot I had something on auction as this was my first. I told the buyer I had to leave town and I wanted payment via PayPal. When I got back and finally remembered I had something on auction I got on the site and found out she didn't have Paypal and could not make payment that way. By this time she requested her 1 Point back and Listia returned her winning auction point (single point). Mariah3 left me negative feedback when she never sent a payment for shipping and got her winning point returned to her. I consider this rude. I've been selling on Ebay for about 7 years and have never gotten a negative feedback. "