"It is now one week/ 7 days post auction. It is your responsibility to send shipping fees within the ... " (more) prescribed time period and in the format requested in the auction. Being courteous works both ways.Please do not ask for things that are not posted in the auction. "
"Let me know if it hasn't arrived, and I will grant you a refund. Sometimes mail can get lost. I ... " (more)'m sorry if that is the case. Thanks for bidding! "